Ditch Your Nice Girl Energy To Attract Love
I was your quintessential nice girl who had no problem reaching out and setting updates when men weren’t doing it.
Until I realized I absolutely hated the results of that.
I felt like I was chasing men who were half interested. They would go on the dates because it was easy.
But that didn’t necessarily mean it was desirable.
I dropped a lot of my power in those moments.
Simply because I thought that I was an empowered, feminist woman of the 21st century.
It didn’t matter how feminist I was, results are results.
And so I had to get curious.
I often say I put my white lab coat on and became a scientist of love.
So what happened when I started expecting more from men in the dating phase?
1. Many men didn’t make the cut. They acted incapable of putting an effort because they simply didn’t want to. I took that as information rather than being offended, and I kept moving.
2. I ended up on incredible dates with really amazing guys who took care of everything.
3. I never didn’t have a second date set up by the end of the first. They were clear about what they wanted, and I was in a place to receive it.
4. My standards raised and it made men treating me well and moving towards me obvious to me. So my nervous system was on board with it. I became a match for better, more intentional treatment.
5. I stayed really open to possibility. I didn’t jump to conclusions, I just let the men do what they do and I witnessed them.
And now I’m wedding planning with the best man ever!! 💐
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xoxo